We often struggle with delusions of grandeur. “How will it feel when I become CEO?”, “How will it feel when I buy my own BMW sports coupe?”, “How will it feel when I hit a 100 million in net worth?”, and so on. These aren’t delusions because they will not happen. Rather they are so, simply because they haven’t happened yet.
A very interesting book written by Anshul Chaturvedi called Vivekananda Handbook for Everyday Living is one I just finished reading. And here are 3 very relevant quotes from the great Swami himself. Perfectly applicable to such scenarios, where we are constantly in doubt: ‘what is my duty?’, ‘will I be successful in my current avatar?’, ‘am I good enough?’, or ‘will I ever make it?’. Grandeur … it just always seems out of reach.
- By doing well the duty which is nearest to us, the duty which is in our hands now, we make ourselves stronger. We find ourselves in the position for which we are fit, and if one has some capacity above another, the world will find it out too.
- He who grumbles at the little thing that has fallen to his lot to do, will grumble at everything. Always grumbling, he will lead a miserable life. But that man who does his duty as he goes, putting his shoulder to the wheel, higher and higher duties will fall to his share.
- When you are doing any work, do not think of anything beyond. Do it as worship, as the highest worship, and devote your whole life to it for the time being.
Simple, profound, and life changing!
Glad you liked the book 🙂
Wow thanks so much Anshul, this is like a fanboy moment for me ???… I’m keenly looking forward to your next book!
I think this one took all the gyaan that I could possibly have to share – no more to offer. As Vivekananda wrote, first have something to give — I don’t think I have anything more just yet 🙂
I do have another one coming up, but that is a work of fiction. I wrote one entirely on the work/office queries of careers, though, a few years back, may perhaps be useful if these points connected to you – it is also on amazon, called ‘Work Sucks’ 🙂
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PS: If you liked the book, do take a minute and rate/review on amazon whenever you have the time