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In a recent interview of monk-Chief Minister Yogi Adityanath, the interviewer asked him a simple question.
“Do you think you were lucky to have met your spiritual Guru?’
Pat came Yogi ji’s reply.
“Janmjanmantar ka prarabdh hai yeh.“
Which means that him meeting his Guru was no accident, but many lifetimes of accumulated karma!
Leave a CommentHere’s a lovely take from Osho on what it means to be sinful and sinless:
Anything that stops your evolution in consciousness is evil. It is a sin.
And anything that helps you to move toward more consciousness is a virtue.
That's the only definition that I can give to you.
Be more aesthetic, be more sensitive, be more respectful of life, because you are part of it.
Whoever you are killing, you are killing yourself. Your destructiveness is suicidal.Leave a Comment
Many years ago, I was stuck in a bit of a mess.
I had to literally pay to get myself out of it.
This despite me not having done anything wrong.
“Then why should I be the one paying up?”, I thought, irritably.
My Guru said, “You may not have done anything wrong today, but you either did or didn’t do something in the past which could have prevented you from being in this position in the first place. So take responsibility and pay up. Especially if this payment will get you out of your current predicament, what is there to think about?”
Such sage advice, from a sage no less.
Leave a CommentSleep is the foundation of our health,
But fear can steal our peaceful wealth.
Karma says what we do comes back,
Good deeds create the right sleep track.
Meditation, gratitude, and cheer,
These positive habits help us steer.
Toward an optimistic, happy mind,
Where fears and worries are left behind.
So let’s cultivate good karma each day,
And let our fears and anxieties sway.
For with positive habits, thoughts, and rhyme,
We’ll sleep better and feel sublime.
Leave a CommentThere’s a lovely analogy that is common in the satsang I am fortunate to attend.
The analogy is that of a Hindi movie title called “Fata poster nikla hero”.
Imagine a large movie poster being held upright by someone. And another person is torpedoing into the poster headlong. He crashes through the center of the poster and it appears like he has come out of it. Who comes out of posters usually? The hero of the movie of course! And hence, “fata poster nikla hero”.
But that’s the analogy you ask?
Just like the hero in this torn poster is no hero at all, the same way, in our own self-centered narcissistic lives, we too are no heroes. Arjuna thinks he is going to fight the battle of Kurukshetra, initially eager to vanquish the wrong-doers and elicit revenge. But Lord Krishna reminds him that He has already slayed all those who have sinned.
Big lesson for everyone who worries about the results of the future. Don’t worry, the Real Hero has already taken care of everything!
Leave a CommentStriving for perfection can be a source of stress and anxiety for many people, especially me. This even though we know perfection is an unattainable goal. A better way? To focus on progress and self-improvement instead.
The story of Sir Walter Raleigh serves as a cautionary tale of the dangers of appearing too perfect. Raleigh was a man of many talents, including being a scientist, poet, leader, entrepreneur, and sea captain. However, despite his many skills and charms, Raleigh faced opposition wherever he went. It seems that by showing off his skills and qualities, he made others feel inferior and created silent enemies. This envy ultimately led to his downfall, even though it was officially due to treason.
No one is truly perfect, and that’s okay I guess. Embracing our imperfections and striving for progress rather than perfection can help us find peace in our pursuits. Focusing on the process rather than the outcome and taking breaks to recharge can also be helpful in maintaining a healthy balance. This is the essence of karma yoga.
While it’s natural to want to be the best we can be, perfection is not a realistic goal. Following the teachings of the Gita, we can focus on doing our best in every moment, letting go of attachment to success or failure, and finding peace and balance in our pursuits.
We all know the Indian version of Superman, Spiderman and Batman, because he is none other than Hanuman.
But why is he a superhero, and worshipped with so much love and affection by countless devotees?
Not just because he is macho or immortal.
But because, as the Hanuman Chalisa says, he is the one who has complete alignment of man-karam-and-vachan, ie, thoughts, words and actions.
When he thinks of Lord Rama, his words and actions are completely in sync with his beloved Master.
If only I had this superpower. I can barely even write one blog post completely before my mind wanders off somewhere, my hand instinctively looks to check WhatsApp, and the mouth opens not to speak but to pop some junk food into it ?
Leave a CommentThe story goes, that after Lord Rama killed Ravana to free his wife Sita, he made a pit stop at Trincomalee (in Sri Lanka).
Why?
Because he had sinned. He had killed a learned and devout Brahmin.
To absolve himself of such a sin, he prayed to Lord Shiva at Trincomalee.
This is truly mind-blowing. God Himself finds the need to atone for his so-called sins. Which means there is no escape from karma, for anyone, as Krishna explains in the Gita.
Also an avatar of Maha Vishnu is praying to Shiva. The reverse happens too in various texts. Gods don’t have a problem with their statuses and hierarchies. Humans do.
Leave a Comment2 cases of instant karma last week. One at the airport, and the other on the flight after that.
At the security check line, one fellow was creating a ruckus. Some folks no matter how educated, just don’t know how to stand in line. He was called out by those in line, but he just shouted at them and cut through to the front towards the security person (the ones that check were carrying no metallic objects). The authorities saw his behaviour, realized he had forgotten to put his waist belt into the machine, despite there being no need to remove the belt there, yet they sent him back, and this time he had to go right to the start of the line!
Inside the flight, another gentleman (not so gentle actually!), fairly old, was shouting at an air hostess because he wanted to keep his oversized bags in the cabin storage above his seat, while there was no space to store those. He could have been polite, but no. He sat down, shouted some more and then suddenly got up, only to bang his head on the low ceiling.
Instant karma served as deserved? Who knows how these things work ??♀️
Leave a CommentThis was the example a very senior satsangi gave recently in a satsang. And it was very funny!
This is a Tamil phrase which means “don’t do your work as though you are paying back some loans/dues”.
It’s a common saying down South, and is often expressed by irate parents who see their kids going about their work or studies in a completely uninterested fashion.
This phrase was mentioned yesterday when the speaker was asked about how we should be going about our work.
“With full dhriti and utsaaha, or perseverance or excitement, no matter how boring the work.”
Doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t look out for better opportunities, but whatever we are doing currently, that needs to be done with the best intentions and mindset, not as though we were forcefully and woefully repaying a debt (even if in reality, some EMIs are to be paid each month ?).
Leave a CommentMy Guru repeatedly says that there is no such thing as a perfect type of work.
Even the best of things, done over and over, will only bring boredom and frustration.
Our scriptures also place no emphasis on the actual work we do, but rather only focus on the state of our minds, while we are engaged in that (any) work.
How to work then? My Guru repeats this verse from chapter 18 of the Gita:
mukta-saṅgo ‘nahaṁ-vādī dhṛity-utsāha-samanvitaḥ
It means that one must be free from attachment and ego, and be endowed with dhriti and utsaha, i.e. perseverance and enthusiasm. That is the simple (but not easy) secret sauce to success.
Leave a CommentCEO, CFO, COO, CIO, Head of Legal, Head of Sales, Executive Director, Managing Director, Senior Vice President, Senior Partner, Senior Principal etc etc.
These are all lovely titles.
Everyone wants them.
But can everyone handle them?
Each of these titles comes with truckloads of stress and deadlines and deliverables and insane client demands.
If we run after the titles alone, we will experience nothing more than stress and anxiety.
However, if we focus on adding value to those around us, neither will we be stressed, nor will we need any titles. Paradoxically, all the titles in the world will come running to us!
Leave a CommentWas observing a construction worker recently.
He had just laid a ton of bricks. Putting one after the other, and cementing up an entire wall. Grunt work, if there was any.
His boss came up to him the next day and said the owners had asked for the wall to be shifted a little. This meant disassembling his entire work from the previous day, and putting the wall up again, brick by brick, a couple of meters away.
Anyone in his place would have been frustrated, and understandably so. Why couldn’t someone have told him the correct place to put the wall up in the first place?
But our man? Not at all fazed. He coolly nodded, and went about taking apart the current wall and setting up the new one. His entire focus was on the work itself (laying the bricks) and not at all on the result (whether the wall was here or there or on Mars). A good lesson for me as I go about my daily work.
Leave a CommentThere’s a big conflict in Arjuna’s mind.
He sees a lovely path ahead of him called the Path of Knowledge. Jnaana Yoga.
And then a much tougher one, the Path of Work. Karma Yoga.
Of course he is drawn to Jnaana Yoga. Just “learn” some “knowledge” and run away from the battlefield and be done with all work forever.
But this is only an apparent conflict, borne out of delusion, as Krishna explains to him, and indirectly to us.
There is hardly any difference between the two Paths.
Jnaana Yoga is also a path of work only. Because the true Path of Knowledge gets the individual to realize that it is not work that should be shunned, but only attachment to it and its fruits.
The paths only exist in the mind. To the realized soul, everything is the same.
Leave a CommentGiven this is cricket and IPL season in India, one could be forgiven to think this post’s title is the name of one of the prominent teams.
But a new RR I came across.
Maybe an RisR in fact.
The first R for Rejection.
The second R for Redirection.
Because any time at all, when we feel like soemthing did not work out the way we expected, we must always remember that Rejection is nothing more than Redirection.
RR is my new mantra. Hard to follow, but worth trying for mental peace.
Leave a CommentOne of the blue collar workers I know has an amazing vision. She’s from a really far away place, needing hours of public transport rides to get to the nearest city. And then hours of flying to the nearest metro.
But her vision is to bring her entire family to the metro. Pretty amazing. And what will she do after that? She will work odd jobs of course. Two jobs, maybe three a day. But that could be too much no?
Nope, she doesn’t even begin to understand the concept of a holiday. Her only thought is to make enough money to support her kids. “Who needs a holiday? If I take a holiday, I won’t get paid that day, and what will I do on a holiday anyway?” she asks innocently.
Folks like her are sorted in life. Karma yoga is all they know. No worrying about what new skill to pick up during the weekend, or which holiday jaunt to shuttle to and then put on insta, and so on. There is no day-to-day long-term vision leading to anxiety. There is only short term work associated with a single goal of providing for her loved ones.
Leave a CommentOn a recent trip to a Shiva temple, we had the opportunity to trek up a little hill. Why? Because there was a nearby waterfall, which the locals swore by.
We quickly fished out our phones to check the exact location (thanks GoogleMaps!).
Not only did we spot a waterfall on the map, but we also saw ‘Shiva Cafe’, located right in the middle of the water (on the map, not in real!).
Curiosity piqued and all, we quickly read up. It was a 1.5km hike to the top – not the easiest. But the cafe had amazing reviews – the views, the food, the ambience.
As we started our ascent, we realized it was definitely not an easy climb. However, we were also surprised by the fact that a number of others (old and young) were also trekking up to Shiva Cafe – the difficulty of the climb notwithstanding.
Of course the view was super from the top, but it also reminded me that quality of work trumps everything else. To receive good food and be treated well, people will climb mountains. Said differently, if we work as worship (karma yoga) and add value to others, there is no reason why others will not flock to acknowledge us.
Leave a CommentHere is a doubt that was asked in a recent satsang.
When doing karma yoga, we are told to be calm inside, not be motivated by the fruit of our actions, to remain unfazed by appreciation.
At the same time, in the outside world, we are expected to do the exact opposite. Be aggressive, ask for a bonus, an increment, a promotion, a better opportunity and what not.
So are we then pretending to be one thing on the outside, while doing something else on the inside?
Maybe initially. Inside Rama, Outside drama. But that is only for starters.
The real magic happens when all work and all thought is aligned towards one goal alone.
What is that goal? To do the work at hand, to the best of one’s ability. And this pretty much sums up karma yoga.
Leave a CommentThere’s an outstanding short-book that I just finished reading.
It’s called 6 Months To Live, and written by Dr. Sangeeta Raman Girdhar.
The book is only about 70-odd pages long, and can easily be finished in one sitting, and within the hour.
But the convenient length of the book not the reason everyone should read it.
What the book captures so beautifully, is a combination of 4 things:
I’m going to share a few powerful takeaways from the book over the next couple of days, but the book has much more than just these, so do consider reading it. The author is my cousin sister, who is an amazing human being. The least I can do is feature her work on FHN! The book is available here.
Leave a CommentIn chapter 3 of the Bhagavad Gita, Lord Krishna provides an interesting break-up of karma yoga.
This comes in verse 30. Here is how we could break it down for daily application:
1. “Renounce everything to the Lord” = make spirituality a priority in life, which will make life peaceful and content. Let it not just be a 5 minute activity, but the substratum of every waking moment.
2. “Quality matters” = Work in the best way possible; treating it like worship, with the knowledge that this is the highest offering there is. The benefit? We wont slack off or cut corners, irrespective of whether someone is inspecting or not.
3. Niraashi = no aasha, no expectation or hope of a specific outcome = receive the result with grace.
4. Nirmama = no mamakaar = no ‘i’ness = work with the attitude of custodianship; i.e. none of my achievements are possible without the support of those around me.
5. vigata-jJwara = “without fever” = this is not body temperature, but the fever of the mind, i.e. stress and anxiety, which can be eradicated if the above points are followed.
Such a nice and implementable way to live, isn’t it?
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